YOU NEED TO CHANGE

 

I met an old friend some weeks ago. In the course of our discussion, he voiced out that I had really changed a lot. Although, I wasn’t surprised at his comment about me but I was eager to know if it was a favourable or unfavourable change. So I asked, “In what way have I changed?” Then he said that I care about things lesser than I used to and that I give responses to questions and comments more carefully." The next thing I told him there and then was that, “If you must grow, you need to change”.

          Change they say, is constant. That is, it is the only thing that does not change. Therefore, if you are sure you changed in the right way, don’t bother whenever people say you have changed because a positive change is a necessary ingredient to a major breakthrough.

          You need to change if you care too much, you need to change if you don’t care at all, you need to change if you trust too easily, you need to change if you are a proud type. If you don’t have the slightest regard for anybody, you need to change, if you eat too much, you need to change, if you are self-centered, you need to change and finally, you really need to change if you have a low self-esteem.

©OLAGBENDE REBECCA OLUWABUKUNMI