STOP TOTALLY BLAMING FRIEND SNATCHERS

I won’t begin this with the clause “you know” because you obviously don’t know, but the truth is, when this piece came to my mind, the first sentence that came to my mind was that, “a friend snatcher is worse than a boyfriend or husband snatcher” because a friend snatcher doesn’t think about how you will feel before he/she snatches your friend away from you. But seriously, have you ever weighed the fact that your friend that was snatched actually wanted to be snatched and was probably enjoying the show of watching while he/she is being snatched away or better still, enjoying the show watching you fight over him/her?

          Well, in most cases, some friends actually watch themselves being snatched away from you for some certain reason. They think;

·        you are probably too caring which makes you poke-nose into their affairs

·        you are indifferent about their personal lives

·        you are unaccommodating

·        they are secretly and consciously jealous of you and will like to separate themselves from you to prevent their heart from experiencing further hurt/so they won’t harm you as a result of their jealousy.

·        that they can never be better than you so they need help and an excuse to leave you

Owing to the above reasons, you might want to shift some of the blames of your friend being snatched from the shoulders of the friend snatcher to that of your friend because your friend never did anything to prevent being snatched away from you. You might as well want to stop worrying yourself sick trying to get your friend back because he/she never wanted to be with you and has surely gotten over you.

©OLAGBENDE REBECCA OLUWABUKUNMI