Many a time I wonder why a guy would turn a lady to his enemy just because she turned down his offer. A guy who is in love with a lady and wants a relationship with her must be able to be persistent.
Although it is said that most ladies already know whether they would date a guy or not right from the first day the guy asked them out and might just be proving the "hard to get" type. Nonetheless, any girl would gladly appreciates a guy's persistence.
However, if a guy has been persistent enough yet the lady still refuses, then she probably has her reasons. Such a guy should not treat the lady as an enemy afterwards. Even if you do not want to be friends with her, you do not have to spread bad news about her among your circle of friends or close associates because she refused you. She deserves a little respect at least.
Besides, some guys never really wanted a relationship; in disguise of being in a relationship with a lady, their only aim is to lay with her and abandon her. Therefore, if such a lady refuses their offer of a relationship, they feel she has hurt their "ego" thereby seeking vengeance firstly by treating her as an enemy. Such guys should be avoided at all cost. Especially a kind of guy whom a lady would tell, "I am in a serious relationship" and he would say, "It does not matter, your boyfriend does not have to know".
Furthermore, talking about hurting a guy's ego, getting attracted to a lady only shows you are perfectly normal and that the hormones secreting the glands that depicts maturity are perfectly working in your body. So, do not blame it on yourself for falling in love with any lady and do not blame her also for refusing you and hurting your ego. She might just be protecting herself. Make casual friendship with her if possible and move on with your life.
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