I met this guy few months ago in an official gathering (more like a conference though). He stole my number while we were all struggling to do our entry registration at the gate and I never noticed. How did I know he stole my number? Well he told me after we got close. We were literally everywhere together, holding hands during lunch breaks and anyone could easily think we came to the summit together as a couple plus he never let me out of his sight at any slight opportunity he gets to be with me.
Ofcourse, I was not so cunny and I intended our interaction to be simply based on friendship basis (afterall, the conference would end soon and I was also enjoying his company) so, I told him I had a fiance back home. Well, he was truthful enough to tell me that he used to have a girlfriend but they are no longer together because she fumbled and I did not press further.
This guy did not make his intention hidden on how he would have cared/showered love on me if I was his girlfriend and when my menstrual period came during this conference, he would always make sure I had eaten, I had used some painkiller drugs, offer me jacket whenever I get stained. In summary, he was all shades of sweetness and I was enjoying it. Lest I forget to add, he never hid the fact about how he would kiss/touch me if we ever happened to be alone so he would always beg me to allow us lodge in an hotel few more days after the summit. He would twist/scratch my palm in public at times and I would feel some kind of electric shock.
Finally, three weeks came and the official summit/conference was over. This guy was still on my neck to allow us lodge in an hotel for few more days on the last day so I gave in at last. All these while, I would always be very aggressive towards my fiance on phone and he would wonder what was wrong with me so much that I screamed at him on phone oneday that he was choking me.
I lodged in the hotel with this new guy whom I barely knew and the funniest thing was that I paid for the first night with my very own money (I did not see anything wrong with it then though). Do not let me forget to tell you that this guy would often misplace his money during the conference period and I would be the one to make ends meet for him with my own money and even pay for his lunch and dinner sometimes. However, he paid for the second night at the hotel.
So, what happened on the first night? That was how we landed on the bed o, this guy claimed to be scared to touch me so I was sleeping when he suddenly started bringing his hands, he kissed me, I was reluctant to return the kiss (my conscience just kept calling my fiance’s name) but I did return the kiss at last. He was about to touch my boobs and blah!!! My phone suddenly rang, it was my fiance calling and my hearts skipped like ten beats faster, I quickly switched off my phone and turned my back against this guy (thinking about what I was about to do).
Despite the fact that I was sweating under the air condition with all that happened, I still allowed this touch and the rest was history (no sex though). Gradually, the three days lodging became over and we returned back to our normal lives in our various locations. I returned back to my fiance but he started feeling so insecure because I could not stop calling/picking this other guy’s call and my fiance and I would always disagree because of this guy all of the time.
All of a sudden, this new guy became so broke (well, that was what he told me). He turned from all shades of sweetness to something I could not describe. I would pray for him that things would be better and he would reject my prayers (things my fiance would never do). He would complain about sickness all the time and how he does not have money to treat himself and I would be so worried because I did not have money to send to him. He was so bitter and always in bad moods that I gradually began to see his true colour. I hustled and got some cash then sent to him (but I told him that I borrowed him the money even though I had no intention of collecting it back). Like magic, this guy returned back to his sweet self and we continued our friendship.
I expected this guy to return my money after few days like he promised but he did not o. I then decided to ask few weeks after just to see his reaction. He gave so many lame excuses and kept on giving me lame excuses till I tired. He stopped calling, texting and I began to wonder what I was doing with this guy in the first place. I started feeling guilty so I confessed everything that happened to my fiance. He forgave me and we moved on with our lives. Well, this guy resurfaced later giving his usual dumb excuses like how his phone got stolen, how he went tirelessly in search of my number and how he wants us to hook up again but all in all, I was so done with him even though we still talk once in a while. Very caring guys are not worth it abeg.
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