Minding your Business does not include Shunning Others

This is just going to be short and precise. As we all know that we are in a generation of minding our various businesses; so clearly, no one wants to be caught meddling in another person's issues no matter how close they claim to be to the person. Well, that is absolutely fine and acceptable. But come to think of it,  have you ever thought about it this way, that a friend of yours might particularly need your advice on some certain personal issues and if you are not available to state your opinion at that very moment (claiming to be minding your so called business), it means you are not a good friend.

I have these two friends, they do not know each other from Adam but they behave so alike. Normal you would say, but when it is a negative trait, I do not think it is normal in any way. What am I talking about? You see these my friends, they are always claiming to be minding their businesses to the extent that they give me some kind of "shut-up" answers (like "Ok that is good" after you have explained the history of your life), whenever I am trying to explain a particular situation I am passing through and I think it is very unfair. Yes, I have tried telling them that, "look, when I ask you for an advice, it is no longer my business, it is now Our Business" but these girls are not planning to change.

I am therefore using this write up to reach out to people that have friends like this/friends that behave like this. Your friend needs your advice that is why she is asking you. Stop shunning her. You can only back off when your friend makes it clear that her personal life is her business, then, she is already plain about the fact that she does not want anyone meddling in her affairs. I am not using "Him" here because most guys do not behave like this, they talk alot to one another. The issue lies among the ladies. Let us change!!!